Seems like when I have epiphanies they are so obvious it's embarassing to even call them epiphanies.
I'm so kiss the ground happy that I didn't have kids when I was in a situation where I could have, that it makes it really hard for me to even think about kids now. Realizing how horrible a decision it would have been to have them then and how thankful I am now that I didn't makes me associate it as a bad decision in general. I certainly realize things are very different now and it's definitely not logic - but it's hard to shake that feeling.
Context is everything.
Posted by: uh at December 5, 2003 02:30 PM